So we got along super well from texting (we’ve stayed up for hours texting) and we were talking about how excited we both are for our date and had flirty conversations. We haven’t decided on a day yet but we have brought it up multiple times and discussed what we’d do.
Then he sent me a selfie of him right now and I just did not find him cute at all in it. I’m starting to think his other pictures were old or something because he doesn’t really look like them anymore.
I don’t care if you call me shallow, but I genuinely cannot date someone that I’m not attracted to no matter how great their personality is, I just can’t. Physical appearance is important to me.
Sooooo what the hell do I say to him without sounding rude or hurting his feelings?
EDIT: I am going guys. You’re right maybe it’s just a bad photo! & Yes I know I am shallow!! I can update you guys on what happens lol
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